What you're doing is not right, from a moral and intellectual point of view. In the first instance, it's not right or fair to make decisions for me, and in the second, we're not actually a couple, so it's an exercise in futility. It's an excuse to cover your usual fear and indecisiveness. You === We ought to talk like adults. Insteas, we'll just keep on going our own roads, never to meet. d d d