...walked down a windblown street wearing a very ugly out- fit comprising a t-shirt under an acid-wash denim pinafore dress, another neighbour , a nosy middle-aged fellow glimpsed me and ran to catch me up. He had seen my letter in the newspaper and wanted to commiserate me upon my loss of Jared Letoz . . . I was very annoyed at his presump- tio n, and seeking to eacape him,