From card no. 4NLKNNAW:

your own individual needs, desires, wishes, dreams or whatever are just as important and valud as i i i i your partner's. you cannot subjugate them to another's; that is to quash your soul.
your own individual needs, desires, wishes, dreams or whatever are just as important and valud as i i i i your partner's. you cannot subjugate them to another's; that is to quash your soul. yes, your thoughts are valid